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Great synthesis. Most would agree we are all driven by innate drives and instincts towards characteristics and needs like sodium. Is the human or animal thing to let those instincts win? Is it more animal or human to deny yourself the cupcake?

As soon as you start seeing people as simply innate objects of utility representing some sort of character trait you are letting yourself be driven by pure animal instincts. Is that how someone should see their mother? Their grandfather? Long-term relationships are deepened and made more fulfilling by the ABSENCE of transaction. I always see my friends as an end in themselves, as Kant would prescribe himself. I give even when not expecting anything in return, which has led to extremely fulfilling long-term relationships.

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